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jo saia's avatar

I'm struggling as of late with many things as I continue my path of aging.... It seems that the road leads to the acknowledgement of mortality and our final destination... And the realization that it was the journey all along, not the destination, to appreciate and attend to. I looked for answers, for purpose, for meaning.... Looking to the final destination to find them... when they have been part of the journey all along. I looked for love when it has been inside me. I looked for joy, which cleverly disguised itself as hope for the future. I looked for answers rather than marveling at the questions. I looked for contentment rather than appreciating the passion of the struggle. I looked for completion from others when the missing link was within me. I fear aging and death and focus on those and lose precious moments of life passing me by. I'm still struggling to put this all into words and my story.... Thank you for the questions, Susan, and everyone, for the ideas, the community, and tribe.

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A house is not a home, just as a destination is not a destiny. In the first half of life, we pursue the material, the physical, and the visible. Eventually, we are pursued by an awakening when we sense a tinge of homesickness, an implanted desire for homecoming, and a longing for our personal Ithaka. The journey is less about finding our place in the world and more about pining for an intimate belonging at home's table.

The inner voyage begins. We notice the slow work of being shaped by life into who we truly are and who we are meant to be. Each circular path we take serves as a stepping stone, progressing in nonlinear ways, toward the psychological, spiritual, and invisible reality that defines our destiny. The soul yearns for depth and love. Over time, life's small odysseys yield the fruit of authenticity as we embrace the wholeness of our being - the shadow and light, as well as fragility and resilience. The soul is now in the home stretch.

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