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Ralph Rickenbach's avatar

I have thought about this many times during my life. Once, a therapist took me on a journey to find out the telos (aim) of my life. He walked (metaphorically) through a wood with me until we reached a clearing and pointed me to a house, in which I was to find my future.

While I crossed the clearing on my own, I imagined what I would find. I saw myself packing my suitcase to fly to the next conference, or would I get ready to teach my next class at university?

I reached the house and entered. There I was, sitting on a leather chair with a small desk surrounded by books. There were four more such chairs and desks. The desks each carried a computer, and suddenly I new what I had meant to see outside. There were some places around the house that had the little shift as if there was a lens. I was reminded of James Bond's invisible car. There was just enough shift to be irritated but not really see. Those were the connections into all the world that connected this house with many more.

When I saw Dr. Strange, the sanctum reminded of of that scene.

Why four more seats? We would gather in groups of five, with different characters and personalities. We would research, dialog, read, write.

Visitors would come and spend some time with us, only to return to their communities later. At times we would mentor or accompany somebody for a longer time.

Nothing of this was hierarchical. We were no gurus or zen masters nor were we monks. We were people who had found their purpose in learning and mentoring.

Maybe that is what I will do in my 9th decade.

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Susan Penn's avatar

I'm going down the Wade Davis rabbit hole. His anthropologic orientation on the cultures and times we live in, as well as historical perspectives and how they impact humanity and current day, his insight into the far reaches of cultural tribes to how the US has decimated the Andean peoples in Columbia, and of course, "The UnRaveling of America" essay that received over 5m views (published in Rolling Stone)...I am fed by his words, intelligence and richness of perspective. Pico Iyer did help him with the title of his latest "Beneath the Surface of Things." These dives into learning are enriching me during these easily triggering times.

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